The wild outdoors!

I’ve decided since Tilly and I need to slim down, and Pixie needs to maintain, we will be going on adventures locally. If you have a favorite place to walk your dogs I would love to hear about it, and may even write about it in the future!

Today I took Tilly and Pip to Black Rock Forest to hike. The weather was beautiful, the scenery was beautiful, (my dogs are beautiful!), and all three of us had a great time!

As you should on any outing with your dog I wore comfortable clothing and shoes, my dogs were wearing identification, I brought plenty of bags to carry out any waste, and had water available for all of us.

We started out on a trail marked with red rectangles. (I was really wishing I had grabbed a map!) It was a bit rough and rocky, and slightly muddy in spots, but was fairly level with only a few mild inclines and declines. We arrived at a creek with a wooden bridge and stopped for a photo op!

Aren't they beautiful?!

Aren’t they beautiful?!

I gave them an opportunity to wade in the water (which Pixie declined!) then we continued on up the hill, the trail now marked with light blue rectangles.

This trail was a bit more challenging, and by “a bit”, I mean I am severely out of shape! The girls weren’t having any trouble, and we hadn’t seen anyone else on the path, so I let them off lead. (Keep in mind that they are both mature adult dogs, and well trained.) I never let them get too far ahead of me, and could tell them to wait for my pudgy self to catch up!

Waiting on me to catch up!

Waiting on me…

We also practiced their recall a lot, rewarding them with tiny bits of hotdog each time they returned to me. It makes me super happy to see how joyful they are running to me!

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I was very mindful, listening and watching for other hikers, because although my girls are friendly, someone may be afraid of dogs, their dog may be fearful or may not be friendly towards other dogs. Any time I heard noises I would call the girls back to me until I determined what made the noise. They enjoyed the game so much they were running back faster each time; Pixie actually crashed into me a few times!

Now I know to work on Pixie's stopping in front without the help of my legs!

Now I know to work on Pixie’s stopping in front without the help of my legs!

We did meet one other dog on the trail. I had spotted him coming down the hill, as had the girls, I called Tilly and Pip back to me, and put them on leash. This dog’s owner was not in sight, and she was very lucky my dogs are well socialized. If you are comfortable enough to allow your dog off lead, please be courteous, keep them within eyesight and do not allow them to approach people or dogs. Thankfully we were all friendly, and after a few calls he returned to his owner and was leashed while we passed.

Once we could no longer see or hear anyone I let the girls back off lead. They had fun climbing rocks and logs, and sniffing all the wonderful scents.

Up and over!

Up and over!

I wish I had gotten video of us navigating one downed tree which Tilly and I climbed over while Pip ducked under! I had a good laugh!

By the time we reached the top of the blue trail I was pretty winded, and carrying a “deposit” from each dog. I decided we’d be taking the access road back to the parking area, and allowed the girls to wade into the stream and cool off before we took the easy way back!

Black Rock was gorgeous, and I know we’ll be back many times in the future, although we won’t hike that blue trail if my kids are in tow!

You should definitely put it on your to-do list if you enjoy hiking,  they do have more gently trails if you’d like to start out easy, I was just overambitious today. The girls and I left happy and tired, and we stopped at the Shops at Jones Farm for some of Edgwick Farm’s feta and to put in our order for Irish soda bread for Saint Patrick’s Day. It’s been a truly lovely day!

Lovely scenery and tired dogs; my heart is full!

Lovely scenery and tired dogs; my heart is full!

Would you like to join us on a hike or recommend your favorite place to walk with your dog? Leave a comment, send me a Facebook message, or email me at StasiaFinley@gmail.com!

Practice every day!

When I tell my students to practice every day, many times I get a terrified look in return… Who has the time to train with their dog for an hour every day?!?! Usually once I explain that I want you to incorporate your training into daily life and not to train for more than 5-10 minutes at a time they relax.  But sometimes incorporating training and manners into our daily life can seem overwhelming!

Today, while home for a lunch break, I did just that! Instead of sitting on the sofa or eating at the kitchen counter, I grabbed a handful of kibble and sat at the table. Libby, pictured below, is a 5 month old puppy who likes to help herself to food wherever she can find it. While I was eating she put her paws up on the table, I told her “off” and tossed a piece of kibble across the room. After chasing it down and eating it she came back and I dropped another piece before she could jump up. Then she sat and I dropped another, all of this was happening while eating my lunch.

When Libby finally choose to lie down (about 3 minutes in!) I gave her a “jack pot” of several pieces of kibble, one after the other, all between her paws on the floor. This really reinforced where she should be! I finished my meal, intermittently dropping kibble between her paws, and she never once got up out of that “down” position.

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It was a great training session, and aside from remembering to grab the kibble, it didn’t take any more effort than just eating my lunch!

I’m currently fostering Libby for Orange County Barkers Rescue in New Windsor, NY! She’s a super cute, incredible smart puppy. If you’d like to adopt her, contact them on Facebook!

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New Happenings for August!

I have some exciting new things planned for August!

First, a new class will be offered! Starting August 8th, 2015, I will be offering “Hounds on the Town,” running Saturdays at 8:00 AM. Why so early? Because we don’t want to cook our pups (or ourselves!) as we explore local towns, working on leash walking and social manners! This is a special 4 week course which will help you and your dog learn to navigate busy sidewalks and distracting environments. This is for dogs who have completed a beginner course and are non-reactive. Dogs must be walked on a harness (my favorite is here, you don’t need the leashes they sell) or martingale style collar, and ALL dogs must be wearing identification tags. If you are interested in this exciting new course you must register by July 26th so locations can be finalized and an orientation can be scheduled. Cost will be $120.00

Second, in an effort to help the dogs of Orange County Barkers (a fantastic, no-kill rescue located in New Windsor, NY) and their rescue partners, Second Chance Rescue, increase their adoptability, I will be starting a training program Saturday, August 8th, at 11:30 AM. BUT… I need YOUR help!

I need 6 volunteers who can commit to 6 weeks of training for the dogs available for adoption. (Sorry, no volunteers under 14 will be accepted at this time. Volunteers 14-17 must be accompanied by an adult.) Each volunteer will be paired with a dog for that time period (unless the dog is adopted into his/her forever home!) Bonus points if you can come during the week to work with the dog you are paired with to practice the skills we learn each weekend.

We will need donations of:

  • 4 or 6 foot leashes
  • Front clip harnesses in S/M/L (Freedom Harness, Easy-Walk Harness, etc.)
  • Soft treats that are small in size or easy to break down in size (nothing hard and crunchy)

For our dogs that excel I will run a Canine Good Citizen test at the end of the series, which will let potential adopters know what an exemplary pup they are!

What will our volunteers get out of this? A sense of pride and accomplishment knowing they have decreased the chances a dog will be returned after adoption, knowledge on how to read dog body language, skills that can be applied safely by anyone to train a dog without inflicting pain or using intimidation, how to get a dog to do what you like without being reliant on treats, and most importantly knowing that you’ve enriched a dog’s life as he waits for a family to take him home. Oh, and at the end of the 6 weeks there’s a good chance there will be cupcakes!

Volunteers will need to contact me by July 26th so we can schedule and orientation and pair them with dogs. Volunteers will be required to sign a waiver.

If you are interested please contact me (Stasia!) at StasiaFinley@gmail.com or you can call/text 845-857-4329.

 

Dogs Have Teeth

It was a beautiful fall day and a 3 year old little girl asked her aunt if she could go out to swing on the swing set. Her aunt told her yes and reminded her to put on a jacket. The little girl was so excited, she hastily threw on her jacket, flung open the storm door, jumped down onto the stoop, and landed directly on the tail of the family’s Labrador Retriever.

Jake awoke surprised and in pain, turned lightning quick to defend himself, and grabbed the little girl by the throat. When he realized who it was he released her, lowered his head to the side and gave a low tail wag, but the damage was already done.

The little girl went running back into the house crying that Jake had bitten her. Her aunt called on her way to the kitchen from the other room, “Honey, Jake would never bite you, he loves you!” Then she saw the blood pouring down the girl’s neck. The little girl was taken to the emergency room for stitches, Jake was taken out in the woods and shot.

Things I know to be true 28 years after the incident:

1. That girl still feels her heart stutter any time she meets a black Lab.

2. Despite being bitten, she grew up to work with, and love, dogs.

3. There is not a time that I think of this incident and don’t feel responsible and so very guilty for Jake’s death.

When my mother spoke with the E.R. doctor that stitched me up he told her that he saw more bites by Labs than German Shepherds, Rottweilers, Dobermans, etc. And my mom’s response was, but I thought they were good family dogs? (We’ll come back to this.)

Dogs have teeth. All dogs bite. They may not bite people, but they bite other things, they bite food, they bite toys, treats, and sticks. They explore their world by mouthing things as puppies. If raised properly they learn what is acceptable to put their mouths on, and what is not.

Sadly for dogs, people forget this. They form prejudices against certain breeds of dogs. When I got my first German Shepherd my parents were horrified. “Take her back, she’s going to bite people,” and “She’ll turn on you,” were things I heard, not just from them, but from a few other people I knew. Anyone who knew my Heidi would laugh at this now. She was one of the sweetest, most gentle dogs to ever walk the earth.

Now it seems the “pit bulls” are the target breed to hate. I often hear, “You can’t trust them, they’ll turn on you,” sound familiar? The fact is that there is no “pit bull,”  the dogs often misidentified as such can be American Pit Bull Terriers, American Staffordshire Terriers, Staffordshire Terriers, American Bulldogs, Bull Terriers, and many mixes that are unrelated. (Click here to see if you can identify the breeds correctly: findtheAPBT)

Many people who try to prove that “pit bulls” are inherently dangerous will site dogsbite.org, an anti-pit bull propaganda website. The site if full of misinformation and hatred. If you want scientifically accurate research on dog aggression, you can read a thorough study here: http://www.appliedanimalbehaviour.com/article/S0168-1591(08)00114-7/abstract

Here’s a tidbit from the study if you don’t want to read the whole thing:  Breeds with the greatest percentage of dogs exhibiting serious aggression (bites or bite attempts) toward humans included Dachshunds, Chihuahuas and Jack Russell Terriers (toward strangers and owners)…

Why don’t we hear stories in the news about vicious attacks from these breeds? They often go unreported, and because of the size of the dogs, do considerably less damage than a larger dog would do.

Want more evidence from a reputable source? Check out the official position statement  on breed specific legislation from the American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior.

The CDC doesn’t even keep track of the breeds of dogs that bite anymore because of the problems correctly identifying breeds, they are instead more interested in what caused the dog to bite. Which is what everyone should be interested in!

Many dog bites come from dogs who are chained, under-socialized, and/or in pain/ill. Many more come from dogs who are unsupervised.

Which brings me back to “But I thought they were good family dogs?” Any dog, no matter how good, how loving, how sweet, how tolerant, can only take so much.

Let’s say you let me sit on you, you don’t enjoy it, because I’m kind of heavy, but you tolerate it because you like me. How many times would you let me pull your hair and poke you in the eye before you slapped my hand away? You’re already uncomfortable, and now I’m hurting you, so I think chances are, you won’t allow me many pokes. A dog can’t slap the toddler’s hand away, so he may growl, or snarl, if the parent and the little one don’t heed those warnings, the dog may feel his only option left is to bite. Whose fault is it? The toddler shouldn’t poke the dog, certainly, but why didn’t the parent intervene? Dogs and children should never be left unsupervised. EVER. And being in the same room doesn’t always count as supervision. If a dog seems stressed (panting when it isn’t warm, excessive yawning, lip licking, ears back) they should be removed from the situation to a quiet place where they can feel safe.

For more (wonderful) information on dog and child safety, what to look for in the dog’s body language, and some great material for the kids too, check out www.doggonesafe.com

Working as a dog trainer, and volunteering with rescue, I have worked with a lot of dogs, hundreds of different breeds, many who showed aggressive behavior. When you work with “aggressive” dogs, you’re going to eventually receive a bite (or more). Not once have I been bitten by a pit bull type dog, not a Rottweiler, a Chow Chow, a German Shepherd, or an Akita. I have been bitten though, by 2 miniature Dachshunds, 2 Pomeranians, 1 Bichon Frise, 1 Maltese, 1 Chihuahua, 2 Beagles, a Great Dane/Shepherd mix, and had scary close calls with a mastiff mix, a Bernese Mountain Dog mix, and a Great Pyrenees. (I’ve had many more dogs snap at me, but these were the ones that made contact, or came close to it.) My point? Any dog can bite. ANY DOG CAN BITE. It’s our job as humans to prevent it from happening.

 

Invisible Dangers

I don’t like underground fencing for dogs for a myriad of reasons:

1. They work by hurting the dog. Yes, I understand that once the dog is trained to the boundaries it doesn’t get shocked unless it tries to cross them, but, as a dog trainer who has committed herself to not hurting dogs in the name of training, it just doesn’t sit well with me.

2. They can be outsmarted. I knew of a beagle that would stand in the warning zone so that his collar would emit the beep until the battery died, then he was free to roam without fear of being shocked.

3. Many dogs are willing to “take the hit” of electric shock to chase after something really enticing (a deer or rabbit) but are not willing to take the hit to get back into their yard. Now, not only is your dog loose, but he will be punished for trying to come home.

4. It can cause your dog to become aggressive. Each time your dog sees a person or another dog on the street and he wants to run and say hello he receives an electric shock. He may (and many dogs do) begin to associate the pain he receives with the new people/dogs. Now instead of running gleefully to meet them, he is barking aggressively to warn them off.

5. It’s terrifying for people walking their dogs to see your dog come barreling off leash, barking all the way toward their dog. I have seen this result in leash reactivity from dogs who previously had no issues with other dogs while on leash. Your neighbors will not be fans.

6. If your dog is friendly, a stranger can easily walk onto your property and steal your dog.

7. It does not stop strange dogs or wild animals from coming onto your property, and can prevent your dog from escaping from said strange animal. (I’m going to amend this one in a minute!)

I have been asked by many a client about invisible/underground/electric fences because they are less expensive to install than traditional fencing. I always list the reasons above as to why I don’t recommend them. Then I add, “If you decide to get one anyway, NEVER leave your dog unsupervised. If you are present with your dog you may be able to prevent a lot of the issues I have with them.”

One of my neighbors had asked me, after getting a puppy, what I recommended and I went through my reasoning, and they assured me that they would never leave him out unsupervised. It is extremely rare that I have seen this dog out with a human being in the 3 years that they have had him on the underground fence. He is nearly always out alone unless the boys are playing basketball. He has since developed barrier aggression, and comes charging and barking anytime he sees someone coming up the street. I’m sad about it, but you can’t always change people’s minds, despite your best efforts.

The other day while walking my own dogs I saw something that made my stomach drop. The house next door to this dog has recently come under new ownership and there are two toddlers now living there, they look to be around 4 and 2 years old. Both children went running into this dog’s yard; thankfully a parent came running in and scooped them back up and took them home, and thankfully the dog wasn’t out. The dog lives with children (although older than 8), but that doesn’t mean he would be friendly towards strange toddlers meandering through his yard, or if he was, that he would take kindly to an adult stranger running in and scooping them up. You can just imagine the horror of the situation: children physically and emotionally scarred for life, parents scarred for life, and the dog euthanized. The “beware of dog” signs in their garage window are pretty well useless in the scenario.

So amended:

7. It does not stop strange dogs, wild animals, or people, including small children who can’t read “beware of dog” signs, from coming onto your property, and can prevent your dog from escaping from said strange animal or cause you to be sued when your dog knocks down or bites said person.

So in closing, please invest in a physical fence. I know it’s expensive (believe me, I know!*) If you really just can’t afford traditional fencing, keep your dog on leash and/or get a long line or a long piece of rope from a hardware store to let him run around on. And please, regardless of what type of fencing you have or do not have, never EVER leave your dog unsupervised!!! I’ve seen so many dogs stolen, lost, or injured and it breaks my heart.

 

I currently have chain link fencing around my back yard. It was here when we moved in, but we had to replace a 50 foot section to keep the dogs out of the vegetable garden. It was somewhere around $500 and we did the installation ourselves!

You’re only as old as you feel…

I’ve recently added another senior to my family. Bruce (formerly Kane) is an 11 year old Cane Corso Mastiff. He was abandoned by his family at a high-kill shelter because he peed in the house and they couldn’t afford to take him to a vet. He was going to be euthanized on Friday, February 14th (Valentines day), after only a week at the shelter. I saw his picture (a friend had shared it on Facebook!) and read his evaluation, and I just couldn’t let him die alone. I called Linda Kane over at Orange County Barkers and told her I would foster him if she would pull him out of the shelter.

This is the photo a friend shared on Facebook. It saved his life!

This is the photo a friend shared on Facebook. It saved his life!

Bruce made his way into my home on Monday afternoon. I introduced him to my dogs one at a time out in the yard and even my Peanut, who can be choosy about her doggy friends, loved him immediately and invited him to play with a lovely bow. I was blown away.

I had read in his evaluation from the shelter that he had lived with children, but that they recommend he not go with kids because he was a resource guarder. I had my twins sit still on the couch and I brought him in on a leash. When he approached the kids I had them give him little bits of hotdog. He wagged his nubby tail and gave them each a kiss in turn.

He showed some interest in the cats, but backed away when they swatted him, and loved my husband on sight when he got home from work. I kept him on a drag line for the first few days just in case, and for the first 2-2 1/2 weeks I was separating him for feedings because of what I had read in the temperament evaluation. The first time I attempted to feed him in the kitchen with the girls I realized that I needn’t have worried!

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Bloo and Broccoli decided he should share, I shooed them away after the picture!(Excuse his splatters on the dishwasher!)

He’s so gentle with my children, and protective of our home already. He’s only had one accident in the house (and it was my fault!!!), and he’s been such a gentleman when we have to draw blood and do other unpleasant things at the vet. He likes to run with the girls in the back yard, and snuggle up in the dog beds (if I won’t let him up on the couch). He certainly doesn’t act like an 11 year old large breed dog! My husband recently said, “It feels like he’s always been here, like we’ve had him his whole life.”

Bruce is a little pushy around food, a lot pushy if it’s pizza, but we’re working on that. He is starting to learn where he is allowed to be in the kitchen when I’m cooking, and is starting to figure out that the only way I share is if he’s lying down not looking at me.

They aren't allowed past the stove when I'm cooking, Bruce is getting there!

They aren’t allowed past the stove when I’m cooking, Bruce is getting there!

He has really shown that an old dog can learn new tricks! He has also shown me how much love you can have for someone you haven’t known for long, and for someone you probably won’t get to know for as long as you might like. Bruce has a spot of cancer in his lungs, may have a mass near his prostate, and his kidneys aren’t functioning properly. We’re treating him the best we can, and will give him the best life possible for as long as we can.

Hopefully in the coming weeks I can get some good video of our work around food! In the mean time, if you were considering adding another member to your family, don’t dismiss that gray face. They can still learn new things, they are still full of the joy that dogs seem to just exude, they still have so much love to give, and all of those things far outweigh the pain that you will feel when they are gone. I know, whether Bruce is here for one month or one year, it will all be worth it.

Come, Spot, Come!

Coming when called can save your dog’s life. It is one of the most important cues you can teach, but many of us have ruined it for our dogs. How? Think of all the times you call your dog to come. We call them to come and then put them in their crates while we go to work, we call them to come and then give them a bath, we call them to come and then take them to the vet office to have their nails trimmed, we call them to come when we’re ready to leave the dog park.

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When unpleasant things happen each time they come to us, what incentive do they have to respond when we call “come?”

Come needs to be the most fun and wonderful thing in the world. If you even think you may have done something unpleasant after calling your dog to “come” you should replace it with a new word. I use “here!” for my dogs that have had the word “come” tainted. This new word will only be used when you absolutely need your dog to come to you, and will always be followed by the most wonderful treats. No milk bones, no biscuits, the most wonderful thing in the world to your dog. For most dogs, this is fresh meat, for some it may be a favorite toy; your dog will only get this special thing when he comes to you from now on, making it extra special. If you need to do something unpleasant (in your dog’s eyes) do not use the new word, either go to your dog and retrieve him, or shake the cookie jar.

To start teaching the new word, start in a low distraction environment (like your family room), say your new word, and drop the special treat at your feet. After a couple successful repetitions hand the special treat to your dog and touch his collar. This gets him used to you grabbing hold of him for the future. Keep your training sessions short, 2 minutes tops.

Once your dog is responding well in the living room, take him on leash out to the yard and practice. Even if your yard is fenced you should have him on leash, that way you can prevent him from self-rewarding if he doesn’t respond to your cue. You can increase the distance your dog is coming by using a long line, or a length of rope. As you make it harder for your dog, try to only increase either the distance, or amount of distractions, not both at once.

Remember to keep it fun, switch up treats if you need to, and take a break and go back a step if you become frustrated. If you take the time to teach it properly, your dog should be running joyfully to you each time you call for him!

You Can Train Anything!

Positive reinforcement has opened up a whole new world of possibilities for trainers. Using marker-reward* training whales and hyenas are being trained to willingly give blood samples without being tranquilized, Guinea pigs and rats are being trained to find land mines, and Dolphins to detect underwater mines (just to name a few!)

*Marker-reward refers to using a noise to “mark” the behavior you want to encourage. For sea mammals a whistle is most often used, for other animals a “clicker” is usually the tool of choice. In classes, for those who don’t want to juggle the clicker, leash, and treats, I have people say the word “yes” to mark the behavior.

I haven’t used clicker as much as I would like, but have recently been using it to train a kitten that I was fostering. I chose to do this for two reasons. 1. Because cats are considered by the general public to be “un-trainable.” 2. Because my brother sent me a video of a cat trained to do agility and asked me why I hadn’t done it yet.

Through clicker training I have taught the kitten, named Lord Broccoli by my son, to: come, sit, sit-up, targeting/touch, and play dead.

Come and Sit: http://youtu.be/dY1mpRt6S4U

Sit up: http://youtu.be/SAnLsWsx3To

Targeting/touch: http://youtu.be/d51UOAyyvRw

Play dead: http://youtu.be/fpThWb4kdg8

The possibilities are endless! Aside from upkeep on what he already knows, his training is on hiatus until Train Your Dog Month is over, then we’ll begin teaching more tricks and skills. Is there anything you would like to see Broccoli do? Let me know in the comments!

 

 

 

 

 

Train Your Dog Month

January is Train Your Dog Month! As we make resolutions in an attempt to better ourselves, we can also make a resolution to better our dogs’ behavior.

To celebrate “Train Your Dog Month” I will be holding a train-along. Anyone can participate, the more the merrier! Pick a skill that is either new to your dog, or that she still needs work on. Each week I want you to take a video of your progress and share it with me! At the end of January a panel of judges will choose a couple of pups to win prizes (one for most improvement, and one for best new skill/trick!)

To get in on the fun, and since I’m always talking about her but never bringing her to class, I’m going to be working with my dog Peanut. Peanut had so many issues when I first got her, that I trained her just until she was “good enough.” So for this month, I will be working on training her to walk without pulling on leash, even in the face of distractions.

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Peanut-Bad-Dog, the 10 year old puppy!

Feel free to share this so your friends can participate too, and most importantly, remember to have fun with it!

 

A Bad Reaction

A lot of people are throwing out the term “reactive” for any dog that barks on leash, I’m guilty of it myself, but it’s a pretty vague term. Your dog quietly looking at you as you walk by another dog is technically a reaction. I like calling a dog “reactive” better than saying “she’s aggressive” because a lot of dogs that bark and lunge on leash are not aggressive, some are merely excited, and most that I’ve dealt with are fearful and putting on a big display to scare off potential threats.

The “bad reaction” I want to talk about today, is not so much from our dogs, but how a lot of people handle it. I was working with a client recently who’s foster dog, Minnie, barks and lunges at other dogs when out on a walk. Minnie is very sweet towards people, but becomes over-stimulated when she sees another dog. As we were walking down the street together I noticed how tight her leash was being held, and a few collar pops were given in an attempt to get Minnie to stop her behavior. I told her handler to loosen up on the leash a bit and her handler said that this is what she did to get her to walk past other dogs. I replied, “But that hasn’t really been working, has it?” She admitted that it hasn’t, but she didn’t know what else to do.

It made me sad to hear that, but I hear it often when it comes to dog training. Especially when the most popular dog trainer on t.v. uses harsh methods to suppress behavior instead of using scientific methods to change the dog’s emotional response.

Instead of saying, “some dogs just need a heavier hand,” which is silly to me, think of it this way: Instead of a dog, you have a child that acts out in public. Not just a temper tantrum, but full on screaming fits where they may harm others or themselves. What would you do? Would your first reaction be to smack the child until he quiets, never take him out in public, or seek help? I would hope most people would seek help for the child. The child is then diagnosed with a form of autism, and now you must find ways to help them cope with a world they don’t understand.

I’m not saying your dog has autism, but that your dog may not have been given the socialization skills she needs to deal with the world. Instead of you responding to her “reactivity” with a bad reaction of your own (punishing her for the behavior she is displaying) we need to teach her what we want from her, what is acceptable to us, and give her ways to deal with what is happening. This isn’t as flashy and easy as that 5 minute “fix” on television, it’s a long process, but instead of having a ticking time bomb in the form of a dog that is trying to suppress an ingrained feeling, you will have a dog that can handle what life throws at her. It’s ok if you don’t know how to fix the problem, but please, seek help for your dog in the form of a professional dog trainer, both of you will have a better life for it!

The Association of Professional Dog Trainers has a trainer search at http://www.apdt.com/

The Certification Council for Pet Dog Trainers also has a trainer search at http://www.ccpdt.org/